Wednesday, 13 February 2013

Do good, feel good.

It sometimes seems as though we live in a selfish world.

People allow shop doors to close behind them without looking to see whether there's someone following. They don't make way for others when they're walking along a footpath. They carry on loud conversations on their phones right in your ear.

And these are just the minor irritations of everyday life. I'm sure you can think of much worse examples yourself.

So what's the answer? Do you fight fire with fire? Do you become twice as selfish yourself?

Well I think (and hope) not.

There's a lot of evidence that altruism can play a big part in overall mental wellbeing. In a neat twist, it turns out that doing good can actually make you feel good. And I suspect the reverse is equally true. Those who behave selfishly end up with lower moods.

I also reckon that just occasionally our good manners can rub off on those who have lower standards when it comes to considerateness.

But even if you can't make a dramatic change to your world, you can at least improve your own day by thinking about others.

Why not give it a try today?

4 comments:

  1. Hello I'm not leaving a comment on this post but wanted to share something in case it's helpful to others who are feeling low. I've got a better score today, I think mainly because I've finally taken steps to get some professional help, and wanted to share a website that helped me - www.bemindful.co.uk - not suggesting it's the answer to everyones problems but it could have information you haven't seen before.
    Hope you all have a better day
    Margaret T

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  2. You are hoping to help us and thinking about others by mentioning this website! I do hope life improves for you soon Margaret.
    Sunnier warmer weather would help me today but none of us can magic that. I keep dreaming of a holiday in the sun. Not too hot, a light balmy breeze, white sand, palm trees, clear blue sea, a beautiful sun set and wine.....

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    1. Thank you Julia, what a lovely picture you have conjured up - I have such a lovely picture in my mind now, much appreciated
      Margaret T

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  3. "I also reckon that just occasionally our good manners can rub off..."

    'Give a Little Love': http://youtu.be/ID0kgP9IVhs

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