These days they're called Cub Scouts but when I was a lad I belonged to the Wolf Cubs before I graduated to the Boy Scouts. In fact I was a member of both organisations right on the cusp of name changes (rebranding to use today's vernacular) - just as the 'Wolf' and the 'Boy' were dropped, in an effort to bring the Scout Association kicking and screaming into the Sixties.
Yes, I really am that old.
I loved being a Cub and I LOVED being a Scout, and I was thinking about my old Cub promise only the other day. It began with 'I promise to do my best' then segued into 'to do a good turn for somebody every day', which I still think is an admirable goal.
The phrase 'a good turn' might seem slightly quaint and out-of-date, but the idea of doing someone a favour is something which I trust will never go out of fashion. Doing things for others is a sure-fire way to boost your own wellbeing, and of course it also helps to build a better world: a more rewarding place for us both to live in.
As a Cub I was told to be on the lookout for old ladies who wanted to cross the road (what a funny old world I grew up in) but in case there's a shortage of shy female octogenarian street-crossers in your neighbourhood, may I suggest that you go a little out of your way to find other people to help during the course of the next 24 hours?
If the person behind you in the supermarket has just a couple of items, why not let them go ahead of you? If you still have time on your car park ticket as you're ready to leave, how about handing it on to someone who's just driven in? Finished your newspaper on the bus or train? Offer it to a neighbour.
The more unexpected your help and the more out-of-the blue it seems, the greater the impact it should have. And the greater the impact, the bigger the kick it will give you.
So seek out those chances to do a good turn today, and - oh yes - do your best, too.
if only we all still cared about others.A different world now.
ReplyDeleteI love this post. I've found, a little late in life perhaps, that the more I'm aware of other people and how they are coping with life's 'struggles' the more my life grows and the more I grow - thank God! Gives some welcome light relief from concern about myself.
ReplyDeleteGood advice as ever. I look forward to Saturday and Sundays posts as I find the weekends particularly difficult when feeling low. Will certainly try do my best today, and already looking forward to tomorrows words of wisdom.
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Margaret
'to do a good turn'...
ReplyDeleteJon, I'm surprised you dismissed this phrase off as slightly quaint and out-of-date. I find the phrase worthy of some of your reflective insight and etymological research.
Still, you're the best Jon. There hasn't been one of your daily messages I have ever deleted without reading; pithy and wise writing.
Like this a lot. Thank you. Good message. Should be taught in schools. :)
ReplyDeleteI totally agree, I love these words that Jon sends us each day and thank him profoundly for this - he does not have to and he does. Our own boy scout! Thank you :>)
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